Notes From Calvary


Liturgies this Sunday, October 21, 2018

Spoken Holy Eucharist, Rite I, at 8 AM
Holy Eucharist, Rite II,  at 10 AM

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Dear Friends, 

Last Sunday's beautiful stewardship testimonies of faith shared by Jenni, Rick, Alan and Sandy brought us all so much of joy. This Sunday's gospel passage continues to encourage us in our “faith acts,” which is what stewardship is all about. Jesus’ offering of his life for our salvation, I believe, is the ultimate act of faith, not just in God’s determination to save us but it’s also the acknowledgement of God's faith in us that we will change. Jesus said, “For the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many.” This declaration of Jesus is our hope of God’s engagement in our transformation until the end. 

To serve as Jesus serves is to be engaged in the act of showing kindness and mercy, in the act of standing for redemptive justice, in the act of attending to the needs of another—not because the helper is more qualified or has more power, but merely out of love, respect and hope for the other. In the delight of service toward the other lies the holy work of salvation. We know that Jesus is nobody’s servant or slave but he grabs hold of these human designations that are the lowest of the low and by doing so, changes our perspective on what it means to serve as well as what it means to relate to each other as God’s beloved children—called to recognize a sister or a brother.

Jesus came to serve from a place of abundance, from the place where he can declare, “I am the life and the resurrection” not from a place of lack or the need to prove any kind of greatness. Outside the Kingdom of heaven, to serve and to slave may imply powerlessness, a lack of freedom, and a myriad of shortfalls in life that force people into oppressive situations. But in the Kingdom of heaven, there is no need to prove anyone’s greatness, nor do we need to strive for a place of honor—for what more is there to prove or to strive for when we know we are eternally worthy and precious to God, our Father? It’s from that place of certitude with God that the inevitable yearning to serve and the will to act upon it comes from. Also, who can give a ransom? Is it not the one who has plenty, and more? Is it not the powerful, and the free? Who is ever asked for a ransom? Is it not the one who is known to love something or someone so completely and so selflessly that he or she will give everything to save his or her loved one?

Know that you are worth the life of God’s only begotten Son. 

In Christ, 
Ajung Sojwal
October 19,2018

We look forward to seeing you here at Calvary on Sunday!  Abundant blessings & best wishes.

A Note From Our Junior Warden

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Church Cleaning Day Postponed!

Rain date: Saturday, November 1

Due to inclement weather, the fall cleaning of the Calvary campus is postponed to November 17th. The clean-up will be from 9:00 – 12:00 Saturday morning. Bring your rakes, gloves, hedge trimmers, etc. We don’t expect there to be too much so one morning should do it. This helps prepare our campus for winter and to keep our backyard clear for our church and nursery school children. Please join us and generate more fellowship amongst ourselves and the Calvary Nursery parents. Anyone with a truck to haul away debris is most welcomed. 

Any questions please call John Phelps at 860-514-9386.

See you HERE!

Update on Lead Remediation for Chapel

I wanted to provide an update on where we are on the lead remediation efforts in the Chapel. All the interior remediation has been addressed.  Special thanks go to Howard Park and David Barbone who both performed the necessary repairs. Ledge light has reviewed our work and is satisfied the problem has been addressed.  Ledge Light is preparing a final report.  This is a big hurdle and necessary to make our Chapel safe for our children and the children of Calvary Nursery School.

There still remains the exterior work which will be a much larger undertaking. We are presently reviewing our options but don’t expect any work until next summer when the school is out again. You will notice some minor, temporary, repairs around the doorway.  This is intended to remove the immediate concern of chipping paint.   All should be careful not to allow any child to pick up any paint chips they may find around the building.  We will do everything to stay on top on this.

John Phelps
Junior Warden

"Be Still And Know That I Am God!"

Psalm 46:10

A Great Offering for Our Community is Here

Curious? Would like to try? Love contemplative spiritual practices? 

Come to church 15 minutes early and join Alice Despard for a brief centering session with bells, simple chants, and a few minutes of silent meditation. During the month of October, Alice will be "holding a space” for a 10-minute contemplative practice in the parish hall from 9:45-9:55 am just before the service to help us move inwardly closer to God’s Presence and perhaps deepen our experience of Sunday morning worship in church. 

Drop in any October Sunday at 9:45 am
and try out this bite-size contemplative practice!


Dear Sisters & Brothers in Christ,

THANK YOU so much to all the Calvary folks who attended last Sunday’s benefit recital for the Connecticut Early Music Festival. There were well over 100 in attendance, and we raised a healthy sum for our friends at CTEMF. If you weren’t aware, the event was a collaboration between our church and their organization. That’s why I was the featured artists. The organ was freshly tuned, the audience was eager, and the cool autumn weather was glorious. Capping off the evening was a magnificent Stonington sunset at the Stonington Harbor Yacht Club post-recital reception.

I was especially thrilled to see a dear friend Prof. Kerala Snyder, who made the trip up from New Haven to hear the program. Prof. Snyder is the world’s leading musicological authority on my favorite German Baroque composer, Dieterich Buxtehude (whose music featured prominently in the recital). She and I met many years ago in Germany during my student days while I was studying with the world’s leading authority on the performance of Buxtehude’s organ music, Prof. Harald Vogel. Between them, they’ve cornered the market on ‘authority’ where Buxtehude is concerned, and I’m honored to have them both in my life. 

In other news, some already know that I have agreed to take on the role of Artistic Director for Calvary Music School; what an amazing opportunity to support and foster music education. That our church should have such a school among its varied ministries is a testament to Calvary’s dedication to the arts in our society. I look forward to all the future holds for our music school as it enriches our parish, people, and community. After two meetings with the school’s board, I believe we are charting a new course that builds on past strengths, recognizes and is informed by past shortcomings, and capitalizes on a fresh, new wind of leadership. Full sail ahead!

Matthew Provost
October 18, 2018

The Annual Calvary Frozen Turkey Drive

will be held on Sunday, Nov. 18, 2018


Bring your frozen turkey to either the 8 am or 10 am service to be blessed before delivery to the Pawcatuck Neighborhood Center. Last year, Calvary parishioners donated 65 turkeys, just think of how many hungry people in our town that feeds! You can also drop monetary donations in the church office or in the offering plate on Sundays, just be sure to mark them for the Frozen Turkey Drive.

If you have any questions, please contact Lori or Jim Taylor at 

(860) 599-1715 or

Youth Group


Youth Group Service Project

The Calvary youth group plans to attend the church clean up and raking this Saturday, October 27 (or rain date: November 17). In addition, we will be cooking a meal for the WARM shelter on November 16 from 5-7 pm in the church kitchen. We have planned the menu and signed up for the date, Nov.21 to deliver the meal. 

All middle and high schoolers are invited to join us.

Contact Brenda Hultgren for additional information,

Calvary Church Ministry
of Spiritual Formation

Discovering a closer relationship with God

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“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

asks Mary Oliver... 

She is a past poet laureate who challenges us to be curious, to understand our purpose and to explore ideas that sometimes scare us a little. You are invited to join us in a year of spiritual exploration that we hope will lead us to a more intimate understanding of God. 

Our challenge as we start this ministry, is to understand the gifts of the spirit given for each of us to claim. They are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Check out Galations 5:22-23. The book we will read is “Cultivating the Fruit of the Spirit” by Christopher J.H. Wright. It is not a book of “should”, but a book about barriers we hold up to fully realizing our potential and live by the indwelling Christ.

There will be 3 small groups who will meet once a week for the next 6 weeks. The group format is not about teaching “how to” but it is about sharing stories and hopes and barriers to fulfilling the promise of the fruits. 

We hope every one reads the book. They can be ordered on Amazon, Savoy or Bank Square Books. There will also be some available in the church office on September 18, 2018.

If you would like to join a small group please contact:

  • Tuesdays beginning September 25, 201 at 6:30 PM at the home of Julie and Steven Schaub, 234 River Road, Pawcatuck CT. Julie and Juliet Hodge will facilitate the group. RSVP Juliet at 860-235-5644 or

  • Wednesdays beginning September 26, 2018 at 5 PM in the Sacristry. Carole Barnard will facilitate the group. RSVP Carole Barnard at 860-9480 or

  • Thursdays beginning September 27, 2018 at 9 AM at the home of Karen McGee, 22 Diving Street in the Boro. RSVP Karen or 513-919-1542.

Ministry Team

Carole Barnard, Juliet Hodge, Julie Dowd Straub, Louise and Bill Hoffman, Bob Martin, Karen McGee and led by Rev. Ajung Sojwal.

Next Calvary Sunday Brunch Bunch!


Calvary Sunday Brunch Bunch

Anyone who is on their own or without family are invited to gather for lunch at Breakwater @ 11:45 on Sunday, November 18. No reservations necessary. Good food, good company and good conversation. This is being sponsored by the Prayer and Care Team.

Please contact Barbara Loftus @ or 

860.599.5732 for more details.

All are welcome.

Calvary Film Festival


As part of this year's Adult Christian Education program, Calvary Church is pleased to offer the following film, to be shown in the Parish Hall, free of charge.

This season's series of dramatic feature films and documentaries will explore many of the challenges facing society today: immigration, income inequality, and the inspiring true stories of powerful and courageous women who stood up to political and gender-based oppression.Group discussion will follow each showing. 

Tuesday Evening, October 23 at 7 pm


The film will be shown at the usual time but at a different location,

at the Quiambaug Cove Professional Building's theater,

located at 107 Wilcox Rd., Stonington

(across from the corner of Route 1 and Cove Road)

Coming next week – The Breadwinner. In this animated tale based on Deborah Ellis's best-selling novel, life under Taliban rule in Afghanistan is already hard for 11-year-old Parvana, but with her father in jail, she's forced to don male clothing and become the family breadwinner.

Join us on October 23!


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Did you know that Tom Verde (see article about Calvary Film Festival) recently won an award from the Religion News Association?


The story was one of a package Tom submitted in the "News Analysis" category. The stories ran in the New York Times, Politico, and the Religion News Service. Here are the links:




And the Judge's Comments:

How old was Joseph? And why does it matter? The writer takes an offhand comment from a Roy Moore supporter about how Joseph was older than Mary and turns it into a riveting story about why Joseph's age has been a flashpoint throughout history and what it means for Christianity. The writer also takes on one of the most fraught issues of our times: whether guns should be allowed in places of worship and uses scripture to pointedly frame the debate.

Last Things

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The second printing of "Last Things" is available now in the church office. 

The booklet is a guide to help individuals and families exchange honest conversations about end of life desires and needs. It is both practical and spiritual. It is our hope that you will complete the pages at the end and share the information with your family, place a copy with your will and share with your church leaders. The booklet was written for Calvary Church members. If you have any suggestions or additions for the next printing please let us know. In the fall there will be a discussion of "Last Things".  It will be held after church in the Parish Hall. The booklet is in the church office, and we ask for a donation of $10 for the booklet to help defray expenses. 

Thank You


Thank you to all who have "joined the mission" to preserve the Stained Glasses of Calvary for posterity by purchasing the book Meditations on the Stained Glasses of Calvary. 

Jim and I report to the congregation that the amount of $5,237.73 has been donated to date to the window fund from the purchases of the book and associated donations. As already reported, one hundred percent of the proceeds from the book sale go to the church if bought through us - we absorb the state sales taxes. The church requested checks for the purchase of the book be made to Bette M. Collins to simplify its accounting. Accordingly, Jim and I set up a business account in the State of CT. Our donation tax advantages will also be calculated and donated to Calvary for the window fund. So thank you all. Bette MacGregor Collins, Author, Meditations on the Stained Glasses of Calvary.



Pawcatuck Neighbor Center's Food Pantry Update

The Food Pantry is currently in need of pineapple, soups (chicken, beef, and vegetable), jelly, Spam, clam chowder, pasta noodles, and spaghetti sauce in cans. 

Their Daily Living closet is always in need of dish soap and laundry detergent. Items can be brought to the PNC. They are always available to stop by and pick up food as well. 

Thank you so much for your constant support!!

Kind regards,
Susan Sedensky, Executive Director.

Blankets for the Homeless


Just a reminder:
We still collect blankets even during the summer!


Blankets continue to be needed by the Center, and we've had more donations. When sleeping outside, blankets are always a priceless gift no matter what the thermometer says. So far, we've received 46 blankets so keep us in mind as you clean closets, basements, and attics! Drop your donations in the back of the church or at the church office any time. If you have questions, just contact Phyllis in the office at 860-535-1181 or at Thank you for helping to keep someone more comfortable in the name of Christ.

Refreshment Hour


Refreshment Hour is a great Opportunity for Fellowship 

We are looking for volunteers to host this gathering.  All that is required is set-up, some snacks, coffee and tea. A sign-up sheet and take home instructions are located on the kitchen door in the Parish Hall or contact Evelynn Lyons at 860-535-3286 or at

Sunday Service from a Distance

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If you are unable to be physically present at worship:

You can listen to our second Sunday service from a distance. Here are directions: Participants should dial 1-857-957-1130 (toll free). Following the voice prompt, enter the access code of 215 866 948#.

Did You Know?

Calvary directories are published quarterly. 

There are copies available in the back of the church and in the office. As you leave church, take a look and if you notice a new color (new yellow copies are in the back of the church), please help yourself. It's helpful to be able to contact friends with phone numbers and email addresses when needed.   

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Whoever you are, from wherever you have come,
you are welcome here.